Liberator has a completely unique take on the bar with the Talea Spreader Cushion. This was also picked as one of the best sexy gifts.įind more Sovyime Blue Bondage Kit information and reviews here. If blue isn’t your color, it also comes in blue cuffs and silver bar, blue cuffs and black bar, silver cuffs and black bar, silver cuffs and silver bar, and an interesting (read: not gorgeous) combo of blue cuffs and a red bar. That’s a great deal for the price as you can pay this much for that piece alone. This set also appears to come with an under-mattress bondage system, the type that hides underneath your mattress when not in use and then you can pull out the four cuffs from the four corners for some fast, low-effort bondage. Clips are permanently attached to the sides of the cuffs so they never get lost. They have a velcro closure which is I love because they’re easy to quickly remove. The bar comes with two wrist cuffs and two ankle cuffs made of sturdy nylon with a decorative woven pattern on the outside and soft, padded inside. Because it expands, the bar can also break down into three smaller pieces for each storage. Locks like these are simple to use and are similar to pull-apart shower curtain rings.
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They use ring locks on each end of the bar and two in the center instead of traditional pins to lock the expanding bar in place which means you can also attach a second pair of cuffs to these two ring locks. I’m loving this unique blue metal finish on the bar that really makes it stand out from the rest.
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It’s simple and straightforward while still looking attractive. Not sex, not romance, just bondage-and to ensure it's just bondage, you're going to play with men.Of all the bars on the list, this Sovyime Expandable Spreading Bar is closest to the bar I’ve been using for years. you should inform your wife that you're seeking bondage, just bondage, outside the relationship. A casual bondage play partner you meet for a one-off doesn't need to know you're married, BOUND so long as you're not presenting yourself as single and interested in romance in addition to bondage-so long as you're making it clear you're only interested in a discreet/discrete bondage scene and nothing else-you're under no obligation to disclose the existence of your wife.īut if you want to be a man of integrity. and that's by not bringing up your wife at all. (And freeness of it.) So, yeah, I promise you, BOUND, you're not the only straight guy on Recon looking to get tied up.Īnd there's an easy way to avoid being judged because your wife doesn't know you're getting tied up by other dudes and then having to explain to strangers that you're seeking bondage play outside your marriage because your wife isn't interested in your kink and then having to explain that your activities with men present zero risk to your wife because you don't have oral or anal sex with the men you get tied up by and even if you were sucking their dicks of letting them fuck you-which you aren't-it wouldn't put your wife at risk because your marriage is sexless. They're not doing it the gaiety of it, they're not in it for the dick, they're in it (ropes, cuffs, straight jackets, etc.) just there for the bondage of it. Which is why there are lots of straight bondage guys into bondage who play with gay men. While most people prefer to indulge their kinks with others they're attracted to sexually, sometimes the kink works-turns them on-all by itself. Now I am 50 and I want to be a man of integrity in my relationship with my wife and I am not sure of the best way to move forward.īut in answer to your question: If you tie yourself up and your dick gets hard and then you jack off, your kink is definitely sexual. But I began searching for someone that would tie me up so that I couldn’t escape.
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I have been tying myself up since I was seven and I stopped before I turned 40 because I was tired of being able to escape and the whole thing had become a bore. So my question for you is this: Is my desire to be tied up sexual? If so, would be getting tied by anybody other than my wife be a sexual experience?" In a video about kink discordance you said kink is sexual. One of the guys recommended I listen to you. I’m writing to you today because I still think about it all the time and I joined Recon to talk to see if someone would want to tie me up. She regretted agreeing to that and then accused me of getting assaulted and refused to look at the pictures. About nine years later I got her permission to have a photographer from one of a male bondage website tie me up and take my pictures. I was wrong.) I brought some rope on our honeymoon for her to tie me up with and she was upset but she tried and then she didn’t untie me for quite a while.
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I thought there had to be a reason that would not affect us. (Her first husband divorced her because they had too little sex. I am a 50-year-old male married for nineteen years to a female who hates sex.